My wife has these days when she wants us to "talk about things".
We were discussing aspects of our future so when it was my turn I asked her
"What will you do if I die before you do?
After some thought, she said that she'd probably look for a house - sharing
situation, with three other single or widowed women who might be a little
younger than herself, since she is so active for her age.
Then she asked me, "What will you do if I die first?"